What's a weekend without a belt?

Wait weekend! Come back! 
A and I had a great weekend! I had to work Saturday day but after that we got to just relax and watch some college football at A's dad's house!.. (If you're not from the south/not into football, I know this may not sound like a big deal but.. it kinda is.. Go Dawgs!) However.. I did discover that if I'm tired and cranky I just need to go take a nap or i'm going to end up with a sore ass. About third quarter I could barely keep my eyes open. A weeks worth of stress and work finally caught up with me and I was beat. A told me a few times that I should probably go take a nap and he would record the rest of the game for me, but my stubborn butt refused to go lay down and told him I'd be just fine. A said okay I didn't have to but that the second I whined or got pissy it was game over because he had already suggested I go take a nap and I wasn't trusting his advice. Lets just say it didn't take long for me to put my foot in my mouth. About 20 mins later A started playing around tickling and poking me and ended up accidentally poking me really hard in the ribs... Already tired and grumpy I got snapped. Pushing away from him I snapped at him dropping an F bomb and going on about how I could never play with him because I always got hurt. Very unlike A he just sat there poker faced and didn't say a word. When I stopped he pulled me into his lap and apologized. Boy did I think I was off the hook.... nope! As quickly as he had pulled me into his lap he had me bent over the coffee table in front of us (thank goodness his dad was gone) and I knew I had dug myself a hole. He began lecturing me about how I should trust his judgement, he knew I was tired but I decided to be stubborn and stay up and now my attitude had caused me to disrespect him and furthermore to cuss at him which was also a sign of disrespect. He made me reach back and slide off my jeans and panties (which he knows embarrasses me). "Sophie you cannot take your grumpy moods out on me" he whispered quietly as I felt his hand caress my backside. " I know your tired and I asked you multiple times to take a nap, and now due to your stubborn attitude, lack of self control and disrespectful mouth you're due a punishment. I'll start with a warm up, followed by 50 licks."  He pulled me from the coffee table to over his knee. His strikes came quick and in no time I felt my bottom become warm under his hand. After about 20 strikes he stopped and told me to bend back over the table. He gently rubbed my backside as he made me repeat why I was getting my spanking. As I spoke I heard his belt buckle jingle and tears sprang to my eyes. I hate that belt. The first crack and my bottom lit up from the sting. The first 10 were spaced and he paused slightly in between. Then they started coming in quick rapid blows. By 20 I was crying out trying not to move. At 35 I was starting to dance and the grabbed my hip to still me. 40 the real tears started. By the end I was freely crying and apologizing, swearing i'd never snap at him again. Once he finished he placed me in the corner for three mins before pulling me into his lap and stroking my hair. Telling me how much he loved me and he hated to punish me but he was doing it for my own good. In about three mins I was knocked out cold and snoring softly (so he says). Lesson of the weekend... Naps are NEVER a bad thing! 
With us being new to DD.. I'm curious.. do you think the punishment fit the crime or would your husband/boy friend have laid out a stricter punishment, or would you have punished your wife differently. Let me know! We're always up for feedback!

Stressful Weekend

 Whew... Kids.. 

I have grown up babysitting but let me tell you that's nothing to prepare you for children. Along with my husband came an AWESOME little girl. But she's young and can be a handful which just stresses me out! She recently just got into sports and all week have we have been stressing trying to help her with it. Let's just say by last night I was over it... But still had a ton of stuff to bake for the bake sale.. This is where I put my foot in my mouth. While we were in the kitchen "A" just sat on the counter playing on his phone. Already overwhelmed I asked him to lend me a helping hand. Playful he responded that I was the woman I was supposed to do the baking... For someone in a grumpy mood it rubbed me wrong and my temper flew off the handle and I proceeded to say some very disrespectful things..needless to say I got the "oh really" look and he just said we will talk about it later... 

Later included a warm up spanking and 30 hard quick strikes to a bare butt over his knee. As nasty as I was I'm sure I deserved more but I trust my HoH to know when I've learned my lesson and believe me It did! But even though he left me with a still aching bottom I know he loves me and just wants what's best. I'm so happy to have married a man like him!! Well that's all for now yall! 

Kisses,

  Sophie

So This Is All New!

So I have finally bitten the bullet as they say and created my own blog. My name is Sophie and my husband... we'll call him "A" and I have recently stumbled upon Domestic Discipline and believe it is just what we need for our newly formed marriage. I have followed and read other blogs and after reading the encouraging and informative comments and posts I have finally decided to make my own. I hope to follow up with stories soon to come! If you've come across this and taken the time to read it I appreciate it!

Hope to be back soon!

Kisses, 
  Sophie